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Field notes on life in Japan

The Onigiri Problem

The Onigiri Problem

September 22, 2026

What a rice ball taught me about compatibilityContinue reading on Japonica Publication »

The Unit Bath Problem

The Unit Bath Problem

May 27, 2026

Tokyo apartments are small. Expectations for adult life are not.Continue reading on Japonica Publication »

Japan Raised a Generation That Never Learned How to Love

Japan Raised a Generation That Never Learned How to Love

May 21, 2026

Now they’re being told to marry, have children, and save the birthrate.Continue reading on Japonica Publication »

Passing Each Other

Passing Each Other

May 15, 2026

On My Grandmother and Old AgeContinue reading on Medium »

I Didn’t Realize I Could Leave the Office Early

I Didn’t Realize I Could Leave the Office Early

April 29, 2026

Growing up in a system that teaches you not to escapeContinue reading on Japonica Publication »

Can I Make 100 Friends?

Can I Make 100 Friends?

April 22, 2026

What a childhood song taught me about friendship in Japan — and what adulthood revealed insteadContinue reading on Japonica Publication »

Hemlines and Hierarchies: Life Behind the Japanese School Uniform

Hemlines and Hierarchies: Life Behind the Japanese School Uniform

April 12, 2026

The unspoken rules, friendships, and daily choices that shape Japanese teenage lifeContinue reading on Japonica Publication »

Why Japan Feels Safe — If You Know How to Be Seen

Why Japan Feels Safe — If You Know How to Be Seen

April 6, 2026

From ice cream to laundry to kawaii, how Japanese women learn to manage visibility in everyday lifeContinue reading on Japonica Publication »

Books

Longer explorations

As If Anyone Asked Us To

Reflections on aging, identity, and the subtle moments that reveal our shared humanity.


Jumping the Long Rope

Reflections on career change, purpose, and the quiet decisions that shape a life.


Behind the Uniform Skirt

Stories about how identity is shaped through school, work, and social expectations in Japan.

Illustrations & Prints

Everyday Japan, drawn by hand